Glenn,,so very sorry to hear of yours and Joanie's loss..Although it's an inevitable part of life,,it's tough going,when it happens.. i lost my father 4 years ago now,,and it's still hard without him,,even though we didn't see each other as often as we should have.. We both (Lynda and I) still have our mothers,and as time marches on,we will probably not be ready when their time comes..(both in excellent health,and 84)..All we can hope for is that they don't suffer,and pass quietly..Both Lynda and I send you two our condolences..