Mark this part of you life will be your most lasting memories . This is a care giving move you have made to care for your family. My wife is a Dementia nurse and so many place there family there to relieve the burden of care . I have only made the trip to her work less then 5 times in 10 yrs . It's painfull to see people in this state . She calls them her babies and comes home crying and in grief when someone passes , cherish your time . This is not a sacrifice but a choice you have made to care for loved ones .