Hi Mark My whole family is going through a similar experience at this time. My father is 93 yrs old has lived by him selfe for 17 yrs he has had in the last two yrs several small cancers removed had a heart attack just before christmas .Finally had to give up and move in with my brother. He aint very happy. MY mother inlaw lives with us (for 8yrs) she had a stroke 2yrs ago wont eat loseing weight . Sometimes life is a bite in the ### Hang in there.....Francis