You are right about the forgiveness. I kid about my Ex, but the fact is, she was a terrific Mom and a good wife for most of our 28 years. She just thought there was a better life out there for her and she gave in to it.

She and I are now friends, mainly for the sake of our Sons, and while I feel sorry for where she is now in her life I have zero interest in any relationship with her beyond what it is.

I'm sorry to hear about the way your wife's life ended up. Sometimes we can't save people from themselves.

Don