Thread: If you think you got it bad.....

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I know a guy that married his high school sweet-heart got divorced in about 1990 and got then got back togther with her again in 1994 and then re-married again in 1997 and I think they got divorced again in 2003,last I heard they where dating again but I don't think they are married but I could be wrong.Yes,this is crazy.

Sad for your brother. I just want to add my agreement with what Pops says about the credit issues. I know your bro has a lot on his mind, but he really needs to shut down all the lines of credit NOW! If he thinks it's bad now, it'll be a whole lot worse when he gets back and has to try to dig out of a huge butt load of debt the (female dog explitive) will try to stick him with.

A guy I knew divorced and remarried the same girl 4 times. They said something about they better make it work out this time because the law (maybe in Oklahoma where they lived) only let you do that 4 times.

Talk about a Glutton for punishment!!

Don

Thanks for all the advice. I talked with him for over an hour about how he can't trust her. I told him he better get a legal separation or she'd ruin his credit while he was gone. I also advised him to get an estate manger in his abscence. He wouldn't listen to any of it. I think it just about killed him to admit he was headed for a divorce. I guess she moved out for a while over a year ago and they had been seeing a marraige counselor. When she moved back in she said her previous affairs were because she was bored...sounds familiar. He made a radical change in his life, stopped working late, came home before she did and worked on dinner, the house whatever, to be there for her and his daughter.
This time after moving into the new house for 1 day, she wanted to commit suicide. He refered her to their counselor. The counselor said she would do nothing unless his wife came to her. She had stopped taking ....yes...the 2000 buzzz word... "antidepressants" about the time she left him the first time. I was blown away to hear all of this as my brother has never mentioned any problems, ever until last month!
The story reads like a bad book. Her first affair was with her plastic surgeon and boss who, by the way she still works for! Her second was with a guy she picked up in a bar. It seems she has some need for people to notice her, so she and her best friend cruise bars and flirt with guys.
After hearing all of this I told him you've gotta get a lawyer and build a case against her. Evidently he has records of all her phone calls with all of these affairs, and seems to think that's enough!
I think he's so down in the dumps, that with shipping out to Iraq, he can't bring himself to do anything right now. When I talked with him at least he wasn't suicidal.
The funny thing is the day his wife wanted a divorce in WA, they had been married exactly 9 and a half years. In WA it takes six months to finalize a divorce, per my brother, and in the military your spouse is entitled to half your pension if you have been married for ten years! What a coniving beochhh!
By the way he is her second husband. I just hope that carma comes around to bite her in the ass!
Thanks for letting me vent here. It helps to let off steam with you guys!