Some very true words from all of you. Maybe there are some of the ones out there who just want to pick a fight and be in your face. But I always try to see the other guys perspective, that is how I learn and grow.

I equate it to the biker who pulls in looking like the current President of the Hells Angels chapter in your neighborhood. First thoughts are "Oh s***, here comes trouble." But when you get talking to him you find out he has two kids, a mortgage, and the same goals and aspirations as you do. And he is really a nice guy.

Bob, you make another great point. The reason I like this forum so much is that you could let your Grandmother read it, and there would be nothing offensive in it. The contributors try to keep the language and comments to an acceptable level. I'm certainly no prude, and pepper some of my conversations with some 4 letter words, but some of the forums seem to think if you aren't using the F word in every other sentence you aren't cool. I see none of that here, and it is really refreshing.