I'm sorry to hear of your situation; there is a lot of that going around. In fact, we're living with one aspect of it right now; our youngest son lost his trucking contract sveral months ago when things started to get rough, lost his truck, and to keep him from having to live on the street after his wife took off, he, and his two kids are with us, for a spell. He is having zero luck finding work - any kind of work. Fortunately, you have the military thing to fall back on, and I hope it works for you.