I wish you and your family the best of luck and I'll keep your mom and oyu all in my prayers. My mom's mom, my grandmother, has alzheimer's and dimentia. It is not a good ordeal. To top it off my grandfather is being a real gem about it and I swear he has it too. My mother is having one heck of a time with her younger sister who wants to call all the shots. It is just such a bad deal and hard to deal with. But, if you don't deal with it, who will? That's waht I tell my mother when she's put out. The worst part is, grandma has no say and the care she gets is not great. Anyway, keep at it and I hope things turn out as great as they can be!