Just left my ma's (she's 85) she is taking down her Christmas decorations and needed her boxs to put it all away(very independent)... I keep them here she has no room. being the oldest of 8 (5 still here) I get all the calls and can you do this stuff. I don't mind she still drives and gets around good but I have 1 brother who invited her to go live with him....He took her for all she had then sent her packing. You only get one mother got to take care of the one that brought you into this world. So Whip your the good son just keep doing what you can and pray the Lord will provide