How did he NOT know about this, and how DID you know about it? Absolutely, you have to sit him down right now and bring him up to speed......he is your Brother, it isn't like you are just friends.

I'm really confused how he would not know about all of this, and if he has money in the bank, why isn't she writing checks? There has to be more to this story. She's using it for drugs or something else.

Don