Anybody have a wild guess what's she done with the cash she's taken? She's setting herself up to have a place and get on with her life so when she drops the bomb, she's set and he's out in the cold. Get involved and save his butt. Best thing you can do for yourself and him. Your fears are partially unfounded about what part you play in this and you'll be much happier and he will be too. Short and long end of the situation.