There was a post on the old server that was up at Christmas about how GOOD it was to find this place where you can be yourself. The world is FULL of ney-sayers and people that just don't get it. We deal with them everyday in our lives. If there is a post or PERSON that you know or are pretty sure that there is gonna be a bad vibe in the thread, then just stay away from that poster or thread! Don't take off just because someone is having a rough time with something. From the sound of it Moon, you've conquared WAY more than most of us will or SHOULD ever have to. You could be someones inspiration, you just never know. Stick around and avoid the problem children, (with CHILDREN being the key word there) . We need to stick together...the problems will eventually take themselves out of the equation, they always do. Donny