Moon, I see what the problem is. You're only spending 15 minutes a day here. If I'm here for 15 minutes it's because my wife is looking over my shoulder or the router is dead. If I run across an idiot post, I just move on to another. Sometimes I revisit the same post several times to see if anyone has added anything good. I have learned to ride the waves and dismiss the idiots - keeps me sane.

As for your personal problems, you've been good to have survived. Looks to me like you've got your share, my share and someone elses share as well. Frustration is a major cause of stress, and if anyone has stress, man it's you. Not necessarily of your doing but you still got it. Ignore the ones you can and enjoy the rest. Try getting your CHR visitation time up to 20 minutes, you may find that this place is a lot better than you think. Maybe not, but it will still be good to have you around.