So sorry to read about your marriage ending Steve, it is never pleasant and even if both parties are in agreement and want to settle without the legal quagmire where the only winner is the lawyers, it is a darn painful thing for anybody to go through. I would of celebrated my 36th wedding anniversary on the 1st of September if I was still married and later next month I will mourn the 18th anniversary of been a single man again. So yeah, it hurts like hell. I will pray that everything happens gently and without major issues for you both Steve, take care of yourself and try and smile at the positives.