I would hate to see either of you leave the forum. You are not the only ones effected by your own presence here. You have lots to offer and it is good for the comunity. Remember the idea is that it is not about you but all as a whole and how your actions can help and effect the rest.

Good sense makes a man slow to anger,
and it is his glory to overlook an offense.

If one ventures a word with you, will you be offended?
Yet who can keep from speaking?