Thanks guys, I guessed that most would agree.

Streets, "end of the subject matter?", might as well ask "is your car finished?"..................the answer is usually "never".

Your's is a story that goes to the root of my thoughts. I'm sad for your loss, but in your sharing that with us it emphasizes the importance of our relationships with one another. While nothing we can do here will ever come close to the meaning of your marriage to Barb, it can still have some level of importance.

While we as a group, and as individuals, are never going to agree on all things all the time, what's the sense in fabricating differences over something foolish?

I see you figured out the avatar thing.

BTW, the answer to your other question is, all of them.