I don't see how this tale supports the title "Ebay Fail".

Seems to me you committed to buy, then changed your mind. After attempts to communicate your unwillingness to honor your commitment you contacted Ebay and they supported you. Unhappy that you backed out on a deal, the seller agreed to accept your offer to pay his listing fee, which I assume means you avoid a black mark from Ebay for reneging on a deal. I'd say you should be singing praises to the EvilBay Monster!

What am I missing?