Some damn excellent advice there Richard and just not for Kurt either. I too had a wonderful wife, home, toy out in the garage, two absolutely stunning incomes as we didn't have children and then I had a mid life crisis and my whole world came crashing down. I don't regret some of my decisions I made back then but there is some that haunt me still today. I learnt that one has to communicate openly and honestly with each other and us men need to be able to sit, shut our mouths and really listen to what our partners, bestfriends and wife's are trying to tell us. Otherwise one can end up a bit like me, a lonely old fool who's only real purpose in life is to take care of my Mum.