You're my kind of guy, David; I had boys, and still did the "let 'em see" thing; a couple of their new buds never came around again. My best friend did that with one of his nieces who was staying with them, on the occasion of her first date with a guy in his own car without a chaperone; had his M1A laying on the dining room table when the kid came to pick her up, and asked him to come in for a drink. The young man "yes sir"ed him profusely and politely and had his niece home right on time; she said he was the perfect gentleman all evening.