i wish we had a paper here that has that feature but we dont. but we do all seem to like facebook and the local gossip mill is always in full swing. i feel for your daughters ntf. usually i shrug this kind of stuff off but with me being menopausal and he did this to a friend it really got under my skin. thank you so much guys for letting me vent to the only group that i believe would know what i am talking about.