I'm in the same boat as you we just got a huge lathe too
and would like to find some one close to get us started.
I got some books that were recommended here coming from eBay-
basic info
search eBay How to run a lathe books we paid <$20
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We have ours bolted to the frame in a moving van (temperary I hope)
I think our lathe will be a good tool to have once we figure it out

I like that saying Pat Mc "respect the tool"

have fun with yours
hank