Want to thank you all for your posts. What compounds this birthday is since Dec of 11 all the health issues that have occurred with a number of them just being treated with pills being masked somewhat but not cured. When I am told I have to learn to live with another one,it drags me down. It's kind of like they are(the doctors) trying to talk me into being older than I feel onside.

I am taking in all your advise and re-reading again. Like I said,I have alot to learn about this.